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Muž vypisuje "priateľke." Odpustili by ste mu?

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odchadzam
19. sep 2015

som vydata, mame 4 deti. vcera som nahodne nasla ze moj muz pozera porno. no dobre, nemame vela "iskri" v posteli. ale dnes rano som nasla ze vypisuje "priatelke". zatlka, ze take len jedno napisal. neverim a mam aj dokazy.
co by ste vy robili, odpustili? alebo ho nechali ist.
kedze nebyvam na slovensku, ich spravy su v anglictine. vy by ste uverili po citani tychto sprav - to bolo len tak z nudy??????

ona jemu - My beloved Txxxxx
I know you are distant for now and meanwhile I can’t help but feeling low and sad, but soon I realize, this time we are apart, occurs for a number of reasons, most against our will, and I sometimes think this can actually be a helpful experience, contributing for a life filled with harmony, love, peace and joy in the future.
I trust you completely. I keep you in my heart, in the coziest corner, warmer, most docile and loving at his disposal.
This little heart stays radiant when I remember your multitude of qualities, your virtues, and so, he beats softer and more cheerful. When thinking of your few “mishaps”, my soul fills with compassion in a way that I accept you the way you are, but at the same time I make myself always willing in lending you a hand, intended to help you overcome any difficulty, because I truly love you.
When my thoughts are upon you and with you I have no fear whatsoever, not even about the future..
I know that “the rest of our lives” is not what’s to come, but what has already been. I’m sure that our path, from now on, will be lit by sunlight’s joy and the moon’s most romantic night sky she can provide.
I love you Sweetheart

ona jemu - My beloved Darling:
You came as a fresh and sweet wind,touching my life, touching my soul and clouding my mind.
I did not want nor could I resist your smile, nor your eyes, or your beauty, from that moment I decided to be part of your life and you become part of mine.
day and every night you're in my heart and in my thoughts,patiently waiting your arrival to love intensely and to care and protect unlettered.
I thank God for your existence, and that makes me the most fortunate and happy woman in the world.
Hugs and kisses Sweet Love

on jej - Hi my sweetheart,
i have so many questions for it's not normal .
whatever i keep asking you ,
what kind of movies and music do you like ?
what is your favorite color ?
you send me a nice pic over facebook i must say i'm so sorry i erase it
by mistake ☹ .
can you send me more i just want to see you as many i can .
miss you and love you
many kisses and hugs

on jej - Hi darling
I don't know I can not help me I've to write you a lot of email i really want to see you in real i miss you so i want just kiss you so much .
Just a little bit of me :
I'm very sensitive , shy and one problem it's very hard to show my fellings but you will see it soon . And what kind of are you ?
Kiss and a soft masage where you like it
Thorsten
P.s i like once a while a beer i hope it is not a problem

on jej - Hi sweetie
Sorry about yesterday we didn't have internet at all that's why i Send you an email . But today looks better . I try to find a new pic of me I'll send it to you as soon i find it .
Hugs and kisses
Txxxxxxxxx

ona jemu - hello darling:
how are you doing, hope you are well, it has been a very busy and stressful day here in Kabul but despite
all that i still find time to think about you. i don't know when or how soon we will get to meet each other but
am certain that the experience we will derive from our meeting will be a lovely and a memorable one.
i love pop and rock music and i do enjoying seeing action movie maybe it is because am a soldier as well
i love red and green colors and sometime i do prefer black based on what my outfit will be for the day.
am also a sensitive and emotional person and it is amazing how i get to loose my feelings which time
i read from you. i honestly can't wait to see you and kiss you.
i bet you will love it when we get to have our first kiss.
i just want to wish you lovely time out there, i miss you and love you
kisses and hugs for you darling

on jej - hi sweetie ,
you don't answer the emails why ?
i need somethink from you to hear !!!!!!
i miss you

ona jemu - My Darling
In life, we receive a wonderful opportunity, and that is to love. Love comes in many forms. You love people in different ways and for different reasons, depending upon how they have touched your life. Love is a very powerful word and can describe a multitude of feelings, but its main context carries the same meaning.
i just can't sleep cause am here busy thinking about you and how much i would
like to be with you and expereince the beautiful things life have stored together for us.
I want to tell you that the love I have for you is undying. It is a love that is strong and enduring and will stand the test of time. I truly feel blessed that you have become a part of my life and I cannot wait for the day that we can join our lives together. I want to lie next to you at night and fall asleep in your arms, only to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share in your joys and sorrows. I want to be your everything. You are everything to me.
You are everything I do. You see and bring out the best in me. You are the one I want to share everything with - my thoughts, hopes and dreams. Thinking of you makes my heart feel full. You are such a source of inspiration for me. I will forever be indebted to you for all you have brought to my life. So, to repay you, I promise you my heart and all the love in it for the rest of my life....
Love always,
your always in my heart

on jej - Hi sweety
I think first of all what kind of do you like?
To tell you what i think what we doing or better independent of the situation 😊
First of all have a nice food and than we see how it goes .if it's going well even in your mind as well . We have a romantic night what you don't forget all incl. Nice warm oil masage, than maybe a warm shower or bath or sauna option everything is open how far you want to go .it's important you want all of that as well it's not want i want more likely what you think(want) .but i think after all of it we both need relaxing or sleep 😇.
I really want to kiss you all over you it will be romantic.
I really miss you already i can not help me
Be careful miss you lots of kisses and hugs
Txxxxxxxx

on jej - I wish that as well . We will see what the time is doing out of us
Please let me know as soon your on Facebook so we can talk
Kiss you

on jej - hi my sweetheart
your email is nice to read i think we will understand each other very good ,the reason is we are on the same line .
Love you and i attache somet for you i hope you like it .
for ever your love
txxxxxxxx

a posledna sprava dnes rano ked som mu "ukazala" jeho e-maily bola
on jej -
hi sweety
Please do not send me something over facebook please . i will let you know if everythink ok i'm in trouble with my wife don't know what's going on but try to send me an email please .
many kisses and hugs

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@simca06022011 no len lebo kazdy na inom svetadieli. ale plan bol ze na konci roka budu spolu. len termin mi zatial ziadny neupresnil.

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luludia
19. sep 2015

@odchadzam idem ta ukludnit. Hned ked som si tvoj uvodny prispevok precitala mi prislo, ze ta zena nie je realna. Anglictina ktorou to je pisane podla mna nie je priznacna pre Kabul. Je to podvodnik alebo podvodnicka. Tento fenomen sa vola "internet love scammers". Uz aj na FB su skupiny, kde sa ludia ktori tymto podvodnikom naleteli spajaju a davaju tam upozornenia na jednotlive profily podvodnikov. Pozri si napr. Ghanna love scammers. Frazy ktore tvojmumuzovi pise su prilis kvetnate na to aby boli realne. Sama si pisala, ze pre jej fotku, ktora je urcite odcudzena inej realnej osobe, existuje 5 dalsich profilov. To mi moju uvahu len zaklincovalo. Pisu kvetnate frazy a ked su si isti, ze druhu stranu maju spracovanu, zacnu ziadat peniaze pod zamienkou nejakej tragickej udalosti. Kto naleti a peniaze posle, jedneho dna zaplace, lebo zisti, ze je to podvod. Nic to vsak nemeni na tom, ze mate 4 deti a tvoj muz ma takto hlavu inde ...

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odchadzam
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19. sep 2015

@luludia myslim si ze mas pravdu. ma napisane ze je vdova. takze by asi onedlho pytala peniaze. a teraz sa nehlasi lebo ja jej posielam mojho muza a chcem od nej peniaze aby k nej mohol prist 😀 obratila som situaciu 😀

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simca06022011
19. sep 2015

@odchadzam no podla mna sa ukludnite doma a predychate... pytala som sa preto ze je to riadny blud... vacsinou si ludia cez pol sveta takto pisu na rozptylenie a som si ista ze by sa nikdy ani nestretli :D A hovorim to z vlastnej skusenosti, LEBO sama som mala par takychto vychytenych "online" vztahov... prezili sme to vsetci v zdravi... bez akejkolvek ujmy na vztahoch ( az na to ze pravdepodobne si to ziadny z oratnerov neprecital ). Je to zaujimave a rozotylenie... ked vo vztahu doma nieco chyba ale este stale je velky oriestor na anonymitu a teda nie je nutne nic menit v realite ani sa obavat problemov. Ja by som to nejak razantne neriesila... druha vec je aky naivny je tvoj partner a co ocakava :D ako si nechal tymto rozvratit zivot a teraz bude mat oroblem sa spamatat, verim ze su ludia co to mozu zobrat vazne ked im niekto zacne po par spravach vyznavat lasku :D

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@simca06022011 predychame aj ten rozvod 😀

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simca06022011
19. sep 2015

@odchadzam kazdy si najde sposob 🙂)))

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regina22
19. sep 2015

no tak asi vyrobí piate a prípadne tebe doma svoje šiete tvoje piate, to aby si našiel aj tri roboty, ked vás chce všetkých uživiť, a možno ona je prachatá a nemôže mať deti a polku tvojich si zoberú do zámočku ...

alebo sa môže stať, že ho ženská znásilní,strčí mu do prdele drogy a pošle na neho fízlov
tak ho pre istotu vyhoď z domu

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@regina22 ty mas teda fantaziu 😀

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4ocka
19. sep 2015

@aduskatt citala som tvoj dlhy clanok o trestnom cine. Mne manzel dal nejaku aplikaciu do telefonu a cele 3 mesiace odpocuval moju komunikaciu. A neviem aki sa s tym vnutorne vyrovnat. Taky zasah do sukromia ..a neviem co robit,aby to nespravil znova.

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

no takto to asi bolo aj u nas ale ja som to "zachytila" este ked ani mesiac nepresiel. ona bola vdova, mala male dieta. bola kdesi daleko, nemohla volat a pisat pravidelne, nemala signal. peniaze este nepytala, bolo prilis skoro

Scammer: DAVID POWELL ( ADAMS )
"My mum has been friended by a U.S military man by the name of Sgt David Powell (Adams). She has been talking with him for the past 5 months. Apparently his wife died of cancer and he has a 7 year old daughter who is sick so he is 'supposedly' wanting to get out of the army and move to Australia. He hasn't asked her for money yet that I am aware of but I'm afraid that this is a scam & she will get her heart broken & end up losing a lot of money." ---> FAKE !
Images used by a scammer. ~Mima

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

budem sa riadit tymto pravidlom

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tiwyna
19. sep 2015

@odchadzam preloz mi to

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

tak u nas to bola zenska co potrebovala chlapa a bolo to rovno na FB

Scammers play to our emotions. By invoking fear, anxiety or hope, they convince us to to fall for cons we wouldn’t rationally consider. Because there are few emotions stronger than falling in love, romance scams are particularly lucrative.

How the Scam Works:

You sign up for an online dating site. You receive a message from someone (usually a man contacting a woman) who claims to be working abroad or serving in the military and stationed overseas.

After exchanging a message or two through the dating website, he requests that you communicate through email or a chat service. You agree and start exchanging emails and photos. You even become friends on Facebook

The photos are real, but the profile isn’t. A scammer posed as “Brent” in order to trick women into sending money.

Soon, you two are communicating daily. Your new love interest tells you that he wants to use his upcoming leave to visit you. There’s just one problem. He doesn’t have money for the trip. He asks if you will lend it to him, and you agree. But after you send the cash, you find that your new sweetheart has suddenly stopped communicating. (Or maybe he sticks around long enough to ask for another loan.)

Tips to Spot a Romance Scam:

Online dating is a great way to meet “the one.” Unfortunately, it’s also easy to encounter scammers. Be wary of anyone who:

Asks to talk or chat on an outside email or messaging service. This allows fraudsters to carry out scams without the dating site having a record of the encounter.
Claims to be from this country but is currently traveling, living or working abroad. In addition to military ploy described above, scammers also pretend to be temporarily working overseas.
Has a suspicious Facebook profile: Scammers often use the names and photos of real people to create fake Facebook profiles. Their profiles tend to have few friends and be rife with grammatical errors. Also check to see when they joined. Recent pages are another red flag.
- See more at: http://www.bbb.org/blog/2014/02/online-dating-s...

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odchadzam
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19. sep 2015

@tiwyna
nikdy never niekomu kto ta zranil viac ako dva krat. prvy krat to bolo upozornenie, druhy krat lekcia, a vsetko nasledujuce znamena ze ta jednoducho vyuziva

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6969eva
19. sep 2015

Prepáč, myslím, že sa bavia obidvaja rovnako...len neviem, ktorý z nich viac. Raz skóruje jeden, potom ho prebije druhý(á)....neverím, žeby to aspoň jeden z nich mohol myslieť vážne...

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adrioska
19. sep 2015

@4ocka A ako si na to prisla? 😒

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@6969eva no ta smola je ze moj to bral vazne. a pustil to ako horuci zemiak ked videl ze mne je to jedno a asi by stratil viac keby mna opustil ako by ziskal keby s nou isiel zit

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luludia
19. sep 2015

@odchadzam tak potom co pises, ze uvadza ze je vdova je to na 100% podvod. Vdova a vdovec su typicke profily tychto podvodnikov. Tvoj muz si pise s niekym kto neexistuje a je dost mozne, ze to aninie je zena.

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@luludia presne

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jhalena
19. sep 2015

@odchadzam Mozno tie fotky ziskaju tiez podvodom. Rozsiruju si databazu a na dalsi podvod uz pouziju fotky tvojho muza.

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@jhalena mozne

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drobcek526
19. sep 2015

Podla mna je to jednoznacne a je to len a len na tebe, ako sa rozhodnes. Porozmyslaj, co chces a co ti vadi v tvojom zivote. Vedilo by ti zit s nim dalej tak ako doteraz? Ak ano - odid, ak nie - neries. Ak sa bojis odist od neho, tak si daj dokopy pre a proti zivota s nim a urob rozhodnutie.

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duun
19. sep 2015

@lubkavargova1 jasný scamm :D Jednoduché pravidlo: dajte si ten text do googlu, nájde vám x-stránok, kde sú PRESNE tie isté vyznania hodené - ak ich písal jej chlap = našiel, skopíroval.

Inak scammeri sa posledne vyskytujú hojne na skype.. typický scenár, ktorý sa zjaví niektoré dni aj viackrát denne (samozrejme anglicky) - píšem LEN drísty tej druhej strany, kde sedí nejaký bohatší africký mladík, ktorý potrebuje prachy naviac:

Ahoj, drahá, pridaj si ma do kontaktov, aby sme sa porozprávali... Taký pekný deň a ja som taký osamelý. Vieš, odkedy mi manželka umrela na rakovinu (prípadne sme sa rozviedli z jej viny, umrela pri autonehode pred rokmi), tak som si nikoho nenašiel, žil som len pre moje deti / dieťa. (zvyčajne syn, dospelý, samostatný, býva inde). Teraz som tu v Sýrii / Afganistane (musí to byť vojna, alebo aspoň nejaké ohrozenie), vieš som lekár, som tu s mierovou misiou. Ty si taká chápavá, láskavá (doplňte si čo sa vám páči).. ja takú ženu hľadám...

zvyčajne sa tu začnem nudiť a už sa mi nechce toho blbka naťahovať, tak ho bloknem. Typické znaky: skvelý úvodný monológ (ako ten prvý v príspevku autorky), potom mizerná angličtina, lebo je to skupina, čo sedí v kavierni spolu, skúšajú, či sa niekto chytí a toho potom preberie "expert", ktorý ho oblbne a zmanipuluje, aby poslal / poslala prachy. Nie cez banku, lebo to sa dá vystopovať, ale šek na doručiteľa.. afričan vyberie a nik netuší, kto, ako .. stopa končí.

Našli sa chudery, čo predali dom, požičali si od celej rodiny, aby poslali chudákovi, plukovníkovi v Sýrii, ktorý ju miluje a chce navštíviť, aby spolu šli žiť do jeho domu na Floride, ALE akurát sa pre vojnu nemôže dostať do banky k svojmu účtu, čiže, miláčik, láska môjho života, pošleš mi 15 000 dolárov, aby som vysporiadal svoje veci tu, kúpil letenku z Kábulu a priletel za tebou, aby sme mohli byť nadosmrti spolu?

No, neposlali by ste?

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duun
19. sep 2015

text prvého listu nájdete aj na fóre o scammeroch https://www.scamwarners.com/forum/viewtopic.php...

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zibi
19. sep 2015

@duun to su fakt ludia tak blbi?a som si myslela,ze stale len ti dochodcovia naletia kadejakym podvodnikom akoze napr.z elektrarnii a ti im zoberu uspory..no ako vidim na ludskej hluposti sa da stavat a ta fakt kvitne v kazdom veku..a to ked chcu od nich prachy to ani vtedy im kontrolka nezablika?

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duun
19. sep 2015

Si pozri tie fóra. Keď sa mi ozval prvý takýto ... (nechcem nadávať), tak som ho zrušila aj so sladkými rečičkami, ozval sa druhý, tretí.. reku pozriem, čo sa to deje, Či je na tom americká armáda tak, zle, že sú tam všetci generáli drbnutí na hlavu (zo začiatku si dávali čo najvyššie hodnosti, potom sa poučili, že tomu nik neverí, teraz letia seržanti) a že nik z nich nemá peniaze (zo začiatku pýtali peniaze už po hodine konverzácie, alebo na druhý deň, teraz sa poučili, pýtajú vraj "až" za týždeň). Keď som videla, ktorá bije, reku prečítam si, tiež sa mi nechcelo veriť, ale... asi sú, lebo tie príbehy vyzerali autenticky. Skutočne sú zúfalé ženy, čo tak túžia po láske a sú tak osamelé, že im nedopne. A muži tam písali, že ak chceli dôkaz, tak si tá banda zohnala nejakú babenku, čo im bola ochotná pózovať pred kamerou, alebo dať sériu fotiek. Na mužov sú to buď vojačky, alebo opustené, nešťastné dievčatá, ktoré sú síce afričanky, ale žili v Európe, študovali. Do Afriky sa vraj museli vrátiť, keď rodičia umreli (rakovina, autonehoda...) a teraz sú tam, príbuzní im zobrali prachy a ony tak zúfalo chcú naspäť do civilizácie.. oh darling, my sweet, pošli prachy!

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duun
19. sep 2015

A asi pred mesiacom sa udiala ďalšia zmena, začínajú sa ozývať ako lekári. Fotka na skype je vystrihnutá z nejakej diskusie, napr. už mi písal aj doktor OZ :D A sedia v ordinácii atď. Zvyšok (vdovec, láska môjho života atď) to ostalo. Nemala som ale v poslednom čase dosť nálady sa s nimi baviť, aby som zistila, na základe čoho budú chcieť teraz prachy (keď sú akože doma v USA, akože bohatý lekár, kde je kríza, prečo by mala my dear cvakať?) Ak sa mi bude chcieť nejakého Nigérijčana ponaťahovať, napíšem :D :D

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@duun ty im musis prist ako dobry ulovok ked ti takto vypisuju 😀

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duun
19. sep 2015

nuz, Európa (aj keď asi netušia, že Slovensko je ekonomicky v kýbli). Mám pomerne reálne vypísané základné info (musím, lebo dávam kontakt aj na skype partnerom z iných univerzít, videokonferencia je rýchla, lacná) a v profile sú vypísané cudzie jazyky, čiže rátajú, že im budem rozumieť. A po tretie vek. V 40tke máš buď rodinu a zrušíš ich, alebo nemáš (rozvod, vdova atď) a teda si potenciálne zraniteľná a tiež v 40 máš skôr prachy, resp. možnosť si požičať ako keby si mala 20 či 25. Proste stará, zazobaná Európanka, hovoriaca anglicky, ktorej by sa šikol nejaký americký generál vdovec s domom na Floride, ach jo :D