Muž vypisuje "priateľke." Odpustili by ste mu?

odchadzam
19. sep 2015

som vydata, mame 4 deti. vcera som nahodne nasla ze moj muz pozera porno. no dobre, nemame vela "iskri" v posteli. ale dnes rano som nasla ze vypisuje "priatelke". zatlka, ze take len jedno napisal. neverim a mam aj dokazy.
co by ste vy robili, odpustili? alebo ho nechali ist.
kedze nebyvam na slovensku, ich spravy su v anglictine. vy by ste uverili po citani tychto sprav - to bolo len tak z nudy??????

ona jemu - My beloved Txxxxx
I know you are distant for now and meanwhile I can’t help but feeling low and sad, but soon I realize, this time we are apart, occurs for a number of reasons, most against our will, and I sometimes think this can actually be a helpful experience, contributing for a life filled with harmony, love, peace and joy in the future.
I trust you completely. I keep you in my heart, in the coziest corner, warmer, most docile and loving at his disposal.
This little heart stays radiant when I remember your multitude of qualities, your virtues, and so, he beats softer and more cheerful. When thinking of your few “mishaps”, my soul fills with compassion in a way that I accept you the way you are, but at the same time I make myself always willing in lending you a hand, intended to help you overcome any difficulty, because I truly love you.
When my thoughts are upon you and with you I have no fear whatsoever, not even about the future..
I know that “the rest of our lives” is not what’s to come, but what has already been. I’m sure that our path, from now on, will be lit by sunlight’s joy and the moon’s most romantic night sky she can provide.
I love you Sweetheart

ona jemu - My beloved Darling:
You came as a fresh and sweet wind,touching my life, touching my soul and clouding my mind.
I did not want nor could I resist your smile, nor your eyes, or your beauty, from that moment I decided to be part of your life and you become part of mine.
day and every night you're in my heart and in my thoughts,patiently waiting your arrival to love intensely and to care and protect unlettered.
I thank God for your existence, and that makes me the most fortunate and happy woman in the world.
Hugs and kisses Sweet Love

on jej - Hi my sweetheart,
i have so many questions for it's not normal .
whatever i keep asking you ,
what kind of movies and music do you like ?
what is your favorite color ?
you send me a nice pic over facebook i must say i'm so sorry i erase it
by mistake ☹ .
can you send me more i just want to see you as many i can .
miss you and love you
many kisses and hugs

on jej - Hi darling
I don't know I can not help me I've to write you a lot of email i really want to see you in real i miss you so i want just kiss you so much .
Just a little bit of me :
I'm very sensitive , shy and one problem it's very hard to show my fellings but you will see it soon . And what kind of are you ?
Kiss and a soft masage where you like it
Thorsten
P.s i like once a while a beer i hope it is not a problem

on jej - Hi sweetie
Sorry about yesterday we didn't have internet at all that's why i Send you an email . But today looks better . I try to find a new pic of me I'll send it to you as soon i find it .
Hugs and kisses
Txxxxxxxxx

ona jemu - hello darling:
how are you doing, hope you are well, it has been a very busy and stressful day here in Kabul but despite
all that i still find time to think about you. i don't know when or how soon we will get to meet each other but
am certain that the experience we will derive from our meeting will be a lovely and a memorable one.
i love pop and rock music and i do enjoying seeing action movie maybe it is because am a soldier as well
i love red and green colors and sometime i do prefer black based on what my outfit will be for the day.
am also a sensitive and emotional person and it is amazing how i get to loose my feelings which time
i read from you. i honestly can't wait to see you and kiss you.
i bet you will love it when we get to have our first kiss.
i just want to wish you lovely time out there, i miss you and love you
kisses and hugs for you darling

on jej - hi sweetie ,
you don't answer the emails why ?
i need somethink from you to hear !!!!!!
i miss you

ona jemu - My Darling
In life, we receive a wonderful opportunity, and that is to love. Love comes in many forms. You love people in different ways and for different reasons, depending upon how they have touched your life. Love is a very powerful word and can describe a multitude of feelings, but its main context carries the same meaning.
i just can't sleep cause am here busy thinking about you and how much i would
like to be with you and expereince the beautiful things life have stored together for us.
I want to tell you that the love I have for you is undying. It is a love that is strong and enduring and will stand the test of time. I truly feel blessed that you have become a part of my life and I cannot wait for the day that we can join our lives together. I want to lie next to you at night and fall asleep in your arms, only to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share in your joys and sorrows. I want to be your everything. You are everything to me.
You are everything I do. You see and bring out the best in me. You are the one I want to share everything with - my thoughts, hopes and dreams. Thinking of you makes my heart feel full. You are such a source of inspiration for me. I will forever be indebted to you for all you have brought to my life. So, to repay you, I promise you my heart and all the love in it for the rest of my life....
Love always,
your always in my heart

on jej - Hi sweety
I think first of all what kind of do you like?
To tell you what i think what we doing or better independent of the situation 😊
First of all have a nice food and than we see how it goes .if it's going well even in your mind as well . We have a romantic night what you don't forget all incl. Nice warm oil masage, than maybe a warm shower or bath or sauna option everything is open how far you want to go .it's important you want all of that as well it's not want i want more likely what you think(want) .but i think after all of it we both need relaxing or sleep 😇.
I really want to kiss you all over you it will be romantic.
I really miss you already i can not help me
Be careful miss you lots of kisses and hugs
Txxxxxxxx

on jej - I wish that as well . We will see what the time is doing out of us
Please let me know as soon your on Facebook so we can talk
Kiss you

on jej - hi my sweetheart
your email is nice to read i think we will understand each other very good ,the reason is we are on the same line .
Love you and i attache somet for you i hope you like it .
for ever your love
txxxxxxxx

a posledna sprava dnes rano ked som mu "ukazala" jeho e-maily bola
on jej -
hi sweety
Please do not send me something over facebook please . i will let you know if everythink ok i'm in trouble with my wife don't know what's going on but try to send me an email please .
many kisses and hugs

odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@duun a ty zahadzujes taku zivotnu sancu 😀

duun
19. sep 2015

Jasnééé a to sú to pri tom takí fešáci, veď baby, pozrite! (nižšie na stránke sú tri fotky - vľavo najčastejšie portréty žien-podvodníčok, v strede mužov a vpravo vojenské falošné profily). Web je bezpečný.

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odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@duun tak nasa "kamaratka" bola tiez fesacka ale nie je na tvojej stranke. 😀 😀 😀
pockaj, budes neskor v starobe lutovat ze si neodisla za svojim vysnivanym princom 😀

duun
19. sep 2015

@odchadzam A za ktorým, keď píšu niektoré dni aj 4? Ja som ti taká nerozhodná.. 😖 jeden je lekár, Florida, druhý generál s dvomi domami na Miami, ďalší má vlastné lietadlo a akcie v ropnom priemysle.. ostatní neviem, nepísala som si tak dlho. Bože, bože, toľko záujmu, že neviem, neviem.. asi si ich budem dávať aj s fotkou do blogu tu a budem prosiť, aby ste hlasovali 😀 Alebo vám posuniem kontakt na skype, aby ste aj vy prišli k šťastiu, potom si budeme poriadať oslavy pri bazéne niekde na juhu USA.

ericap
19. sep 2015

:D :D :D som sa pobavila dobre... prepac, ale myslim, ze tvoj muz, este nie je "vyzrety":D :D :D
vsak co citam, tak mi to pride, ze to pise chlapik, kt. sa vydava za zensku a predpoklada, ze normalna zena by ineho chlapa namotavala tymto stylom :D :D :D
v tych mailoch mu ani neodpoveda v podstate na jeho otazky 🙂 je to akoby x krat kopirovala tie iste frazy, kt. pouziva pri viacerych "naruzivych" chlapoch 🙂
sorry, ale myslim, ze ziadna zena, kt. je skutocna vojacka (predpokladam, ze to tak napisal/a len kvoli tomu, ze mu poslala nejaku "stavnatu" pornoherecku v uniforme) by to chlapikovi nepisala tymto sposobom a tiez by mala iny slovnik 🙂 (chlapi sa vacsinou silnych zien boja) 🙂
a tiez ze musi hladat svoje fotky 🙂 to ma pobavilo.

ja by som mu dopriala, nech sa s nou stretne 🙂 urcite by sa vyhovorila, ze jej do toho nieco prislo, prip. by ho pretiahol nejaky 150 kg pakistanec :D ci odkial to je 🙂 nech si uzije chlapec, ked po tom tak tuzi 🙂

co s nim, to je samozrejme na tebe 🙂 ale ja by som mu neverila nos medzi ocami 🙂 na rozdiel od nej, to on bral vazne 🙂 ale zas o jeho IQ sa nebudeme bavit 🙂

jeennyv
19. sep 2015

@odchadzam cudujem sa ze tento chlap ma popri 4 detoch cas na nieco take...necitala som celu diskusiu ako je to u vas doma ale ja by som ho hne zapratala do roboty o domacnost a deti a hned by ho nieco take preslo....na jednej strane to cloveka urazi a nastve, ze partner ma potrebu takto vypisovat s niekym, na druhej pokial je to v takej virtualnej rovine, vzdy je to len isty klam mimo realitu...no signal, ze doma nieco nefunguje, ked ma takuto tendenciu...zaklad je to riesit medzi vami dvoma...vsimam si tu na mk mnoho vztahovych problemov, no jednu vec nechapem...preco to co zakladatelia tem, ci zeny alebo muzi, maju na srdci a napisu sem do fora neinterpretuju aj doma...ludia si vzajomne necitaju myslienky a pokial si narovinu nepovedia co chcu a co ich trapi nikdy nevyriesia svoje problemy....

odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@duun 😀 vsak len daj fotky, mi ti tu vyberieme toho naj - lepsieho, krajsieho, bohatsieho 😀

odchadzam
autor
19. sep 2015

@ericap no ved to ze clovek niekedy ani netusi co si zobral "do domu"
@jeennyv to nie je ale nas pripad. ja mu vzdy poviem ked to u nas nefunguje. a on cusi. tak ked chlapec nic nepovie tak mu citat myslienky neviem. to vsetci chlapi su ze ja nic, ja muzikant a potom ze to je tvoja vina lebo si nevedela. radost zit

bluff
20. sep 2015

Hahaha však tvoj muž si píše s trollom alebo reaguje na nejaký spamovy email.. asi mu riadne preskocilo.. ale aspoň si precvicuje anglictinu, podľa toho ako on píše na škodu mu to nebude.

bluff
20. sep 2015

@odchadzam nechce sa mi citat diskusia ale ty si vazne neprišla na to ze to je scam? Alebo srandujes? Tak ale ja som sa pobavila.. dik

canama
20. sep 2015

@odchadzam nevera casto funguje ako katalyzator vztahov. ak je zaklad manzelstva dobry a manzelia sa stale lubia, moze vas to nakopnut aby ste do to dobre oprasili a vas vztah sa moze posunut dalej. na druhej strane ak uz city vyprchali, moze to byt povestna posledna kvapka ktora oficialne potvrdi, ze tomu vztahu je uz davno koniec. z tvojich prispevkov sa zda ze to je skor ta druha moznost....rozhodnut sa finalne musite vy dvaja, skus si nechat viac casu ako 2 dni...a co na to cele manzel? jedna vec je ze tvrdi ze chce zostat s vami, to bohuzial tvrdi drviva vacsina nevernikov. druha vec je, ci je ochotny zacat s tebou pracovat na vztahu, na takom v ktorom budete mat obaja naplnene potreby a ktory bude zalozeny na vzajomnej ucte.

4ocka
20. sep 2015

@adrioska povedal to kolegyni s ktorou som v kontakte,a potom nemal problem priznat sa ...

libka1
20. sep 2015

@4ocka tvoj muz musi byt priserne zakomplexovany 😕 to je uz chore toto ked taketo spravi. Neviem co ho k tomu viedlo a ci si mu dala zamienku, ale aj tak by potreboval odbornu pomoc 😝

lubkavargova1
20. sep 2015

@duun presne tak, rozmaha sa nto na FB, skype...aj ja som takeho natahovala celych 6 mesiacov a potom ked zistil ze viem, tak penil jak saponat...a zacal sa vyhrazat a take bla-bla. Tejto problematike sa venuju aj u nas lebo bohuzial su zeny co stale naletia. A nie len zeny, ale aj muzi...smutne, velmi smutne...

adrioska
20. sep 2015

@odchadzam tak a teraz je zalubeny? Opustis ho? Co bude s vami?

adrioska
20. sep 2015

@4ocka ach jaj ☹

odchadzam
autor
20. sep 2015

@adrioska klame. ked pisal listy tak to myslel vazne. ked som mu na to prisla tak zatlkal, ze nic nerobil. a najnovsie ked som mu ukazala na internete ako to funguje, tak rozprava, ved ja som o tom cely cas vedel, ja som sa len zabaval. nikdy som si nemyslel ze z toho cosi bude.
nie mozno nemyslel, ale takuto zabavu urcite nebudem tolerovat. a bez mojho vedomia, lebo tieto scamy su ozaj potom len ako zabava pre "nas".
mame rok kym nas rozvedu. vyzera to na moznost dva - rozchod. to by musel sakra zmenit svoje spravanie ku mne aby som povedala, ok, ostaneme spolu

odchadzam
autor
20. sep 2015

@bluff kedze nas vztah uz skripal tak toto bolo pre mna tip of an iceberg. kedze som nevedela odkedy sa to taha, ako ju spoznal, len som nasla niektore spravy, tak som si nemohla urobit kompletny obraz. ale ako vidis, za jeden den som to vyriesila. tak hadam az tak zle na tom s mojim IQ nie som 😉
hlavne muselo tu "druhu stranu" lubostneho romanu dorazit, ze som mu ho posielala a pytala peniaze na letenku 😀 😀 😀 mysleli akeho prachaca zbalili 😀 😀 😀

musim povedat. prvy moment ako som to nasla bol sok. ze moj muz vypisuje lubostne listy cudzej zenskej. ale potom v noci, ked som to pisala sem a aj muzovi som urobila prievan na jeho FB (tak mu treba aj ked to bol vymysel), tak som sa dobre bavila. teda tato skusenost bola 100% uspesna - zabavna

janickacrazy
21. sep 2015

@odchadzam Stále nechápem, ako može nejaký chlap na takéto bludy naletieť. Ešte pri nejakých zúfalých opustených ženách si to viem predstaviť, že sa takých sladkých rečí chytia, ale chlap, čo má 4 deti? Neskutočné fakt.

igor211
21. sep 2015

@odchadzam Inak tvoj muz ma anglictinu na urovni 3-tiaka zakladnej skoly. A tiez suhlasim s tym co tu bolo pisane. Zrejme mu pise muz, lebo tazko bude mat vojacka z Kabulu internet, a chce dostat viza do EU. Tym padom logicky vyplyva ze tvoj muz, ak si naozaj myslel ze toto je pravdiva zena, je v tomto mentalne asi na urovni jeho anglictiny.

mysicka36
21. sep 2015

😀 tak to sa musím smiať. Takého tupca by som doma nechcela aj keby som odpustila. Veď to je aj nebezpečné žiť s takým človekom.

odchadzam
autor
22. sep 2015

dakujem vam vsetkym za prispevky, rady a komentare.
neviem ako to napisat - spravanie mojho muza sa nezmenilo a nebolo "podozrive" (zeby sa nejako extra o seba zacal starat a pod). takze mozno to jeho blbe presvedcenie - zatlkat aj ked sa nic nedeje (lebo ten kontakt mu dohodil kamarat a ten mu vraj vravel ze je to podvodnicka, a moj si to chcel potom vyskusat sam na "vlastnej kozi" a aj podla IP pocitaca zistil ze ta osoba vobec nie je v afganistane ale kdesi v usa), tak to sa mu velmi vypomstilo.
sice ja som nemala take e-maily ale ked som nasla dotycnu pod dalsimi 6 menami na fb tak som vedela ze urcite to nie je "romanticka laska na prvy pohlad" a ze si z neho utahuje. len som nechapala preco moj muz zatlka nieco co netreba tajit, alebo ozaj je taky padnuty na hlavu a jej uveril ze ho lubi 😕 😠 ved by sme sa obaja mohli pobavit odpisovanim na jej (jeho ak je to muz) maily. ked si poviem ze aj on si z nej utahoval, vtedy aj tie jeho listy davaju zmysel, take "plne lasky a citov" (aj ked od "tretiacika zo zs" 😉 😉 )
uvidim co sa udeje za ten rok co nas caka do rozvodu. mozno tato "prihoda" ktoru napisal sam zivot predsa len bola na nieco dobra. ze si moj muz uvedomil, ze jeho zena nie je blbec a nehodno sa zahravat s ohnom 😀 aj ked nepali 😀 😀
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